There were tears, to be sure, but also plenty of smiles on the faces of the several hundred attendees at Saturday’s (July 30) Celebration of Life for Laurie Martin, Xavier Prep’s late tennis coach who passed away on June 6 at the age of 59 when she fell at a family residence near Show Low.
The memorial was held at Founders Hall on the Xavier campus, and was viewed by about 100 more people on an Internet Live stream.
If anyone lived a full life, it certainly was Martin.
The theme of the day was, “Live Like Laurie.’’ Tables were decorated with some of her family photos and lavender wristbands with the theme printed on them. People could sign a card conveying a message to the family that will be part of an upcoming memorial book. Life-long photos of Martin flashed on screens around the room, along with a few brief videos in accompaniment to some of her favorite songs over the years.
|RIP, Laurie Martin|
She spent her early years in southern California but established roots when she moved to Tempe, where she graduated from McClintock High School and was active in numerous school activities. She also went on to graduate from Arizona State.
Some of Xavier’s administrators who worked closely with Martin were on hand for the event, including XCP President Sr. Joan Fitzgerald, XCP Principal Sr. Joanie Nuckols and Vice Principal for Activities and Athletic Director Sr. Lynn Winsor.
The crowd was told that Martin had a positive impact on everyone she met, and were asked if they thought they could be considered her best friend.
Winsor came forward and presented a “mini-biography’’ of Martin, who worked at Xavier for 17 years and produced five state championships and several state runner-up finishes.
Martin also drew praise for her example of family life with husband Stan (nearly four decades) and daughters Amanda, Courtney and Natalie and son Tanner, along with grandchildren.
“Her four children were her biggest fans,’’ Winsor said.
Son Tanner praised his mother, calling her his “Super Hero with Super Powers.’’
“She had a tireless work ethic,’’ he added, also mentioning her family dinners on Sundays.
Daughter Amanda, who with her sisters is a Xavier alumnus, played and coached tennis with her mother for the Gators and worked in the school’s human resources office before getting married, spoke of the birth of her first child when she was living out of state.
“My mom hopped on a plane – she did that for all of us – and came to where I lived when I had an emergency C-section,’’ Amanda said. “She used some of that energy of hers to decorate our house for Christmas.’’
Laurie Martin started a “no-cut’’ program for freshman players that would win her several awards for that maneuver. Every year, that program would draw at least 70 players.
“But she put her players first as people,’’ Amanda said. “When she first told people about the no-cut, they thought she was nuts. But look how that turned out. She wanted the players to gain some lifelong friends.
“And she lived her life with the utmost integrity.’’
Daughter Courtney called Laurie “a phenomenal grandma. I hope to be half the grandma she was to us. She had this commitment of living every day to its fullest.’’
Daughter Natalie said that her mother would be proud.
“She died knowing that we are all doing well,’’ Natalie said.
Natalie is amazed by her mother’s physical conditioning, including some noteworthy dance moves. She asked the attendees to stand and go through some of the moves, which got everybody laughing.
Former Xavier players Meg Yuan and Jordan Craft spoke of being coached by Martin, a part of what they estimated was about 2,000 players she coached at Xavier over her 17 years, producing a 271-16 record.
Laurie Martin also has been involved over the years at the national level through the United States Tennis Association, winning awards, and worked closely with Tracy Becker, a long-time friend and former teammate at McClintock. Becker listed many of the highlights with USTA.
As The XCP Files author, I would like to include a few remembrances of Laurie Martin.
Laurie always was good-natured and carried herself in a professional manner when I would come out for a match or write a feature story.
*In the early days of her no-cut freshman program, and when The XCP Files started, we would chat and combine those subjects. She touted the benefits of her program even then, and when she would go to national meetings of tennis officials, she would mention The XCP Files and told them how the coverage helps the development and maintenance of the school’s athletic programs.
Some of the other coaches were somewhat envious, as in, “Gee, we kind of wish we had that at our school.’’
I always appreciated that she would go to bat for me like that.
*At the Gators’ matches, you need not look too far to know where she was. Wearing her trademark straw hat, and sitting in a big folding chair for road and state matches, she would encourage her players with two simple words, “GO ZAVE-YURR.’’
*Another thing with the voice. It wasn’t screaming loud, but it got her point across. I would hear that same voice when she would give lessons on Wednesdays at courts across the street from our home (we both lived in the same Tempe development at the time). The voice was unmistakable as she instructed her adult players.
“She’s out there,’’ my wife, Carol, would say.
*Laurie and I shared an interesting fact: we both had a grandson with a creative, noteworthy first name – Wyatt. And I always tried to ask her how her Wyatt was doing.
*During this spring’s state doubles tournament, Xavier’s Ryan Kershner and Dani Dyer captured the championship. I went to Martin for a comment for my story, but she graciously suggested that assistant coach Ford Oliver should provide his thoughts, giving him a little “publicity.’’
That showed a lot of class.
So, in honor of Laurie, the next time you go to an XCP match, say, “GO ZAVE-YURR.’’